He was wrong...things did change
Ok, this isn't MY story but this may connect with some other teens out there. There was this guy and he was kissing my friend and telling her how he loved her and how wonderful it would be to have sex, and that nothing would really change. Well, she started to say "no" but then he started to do all the "right things", like saying sorry, waiting a while, making out, then pushing again. Well, she finally agreed to have sex and guess what? He was wrong, things did change... they both are now parents! Well, I hope this will make people think before they do the same thing as my friend.
(Age 13), Lowell,MA
When i went to high School i thought that i was goin to be single for the rest of my life. Than when i arrived there was this boy that i had a crush on. Comes to find out that he likes me too. So me and him decides to go out. We went out for about 17 months and we thought we were in love. So he decides that we should start having sex.To me this wasn't too good for me cause i was a virgin and he's not. So he questions me over and over until i told him I would. But when that day came i told him no and he got very upset and started calling me names and started hitting me. Then after that i knew that me and him couldn't be together and today we are no longer together.
em (Age 16), boston mass
proving my love ??
i was going out with this boy who was 15 and im 14. we was doing a good job in our relationship but then he wanted to go further so we did. after we was done his whole attitude changed and he started acting funny. it made me feel like thats all he wanted me for. i felt a little used but then i thought of it as my fault because all i had to do was say no. he told me he loved me so i did what i had to do to prove i love him too. i guess love is blind because things didnt work out but we still are friends...i regret doing what i did...
sp (Age 14), boston ma
I think everyone who shared their personal stories on this web site is so brave because it takes alot of guts to be honest and tell your business that way just to save other teens from making the same mistake so thank you because I've learned a lot.
RP (Age 16), Boston, MA
You make the choice
just 2 weeks ago me and my friend were at her cousin's house. we went to this boyz house and i was supposed to have sex with this boy- the only reason why i was going to do it was because of peer preasure. but something in my mind said that i didn't have to do it because i'm my own person and i make my choices and having sex wasn't my choice. thats when i realized that the time will come when i'm ready- not when someone tells me to. you make the choice to have sex not your friends or ya man
wrc (Age 15), boston massachuestts